by redneckbillionaire
The Dominant person is called a Dom or Dominant -not- a Dominate. There's another n in the correct word. Dominate is the action, dominant is the person.
I do not like this story. People are not meant to be lied to. People, no matter if they are submissive or dominant, should be told the truth before they are put into a BDSM situation and not pushed or put into a situation without knowledge of what is going to happen. I feel this sub was tricked and basically lied to.
I wouldn't say she was lied to, but kept in the dark - and that's bad enough. A responsible Dom would get a prior consent.