by MexicanGringo
Thoughtful commentary: instructive, revealing, arousing. As a curious but non-practicing swinger, I am not surprised that so many 'rules' come into play, sex is complicated enough with just a pair, once the additions get made the vectors grow exponentially, but it sounds like once a couple has reached the right balance point, things can work well. For many of us this is intensely exciting, but it would only work with a partner's interest and enthusiasm, and a lot of things get in the way of such indulgence.
Thanks, well written.