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- Real Talk: Fantastically Real
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Some real world updates -- Covid finally hit T.'s household, and while she remains Negative, her hubby has been down for almost 2 weeks, which has made sleep, recording, and just existing really hard. But even when sex isn't possible, there is always fantasies... but how does a woman who focuses so hard to give reality to her listeners explain her frequent forays into the fantasy world?
As with all Real Talks, this begins as a thoughtful talk about the evolution of porn, kink, and BDSM and how we as a culture have been raised on a diet of completely unrealistic sex with the rise of the internet and how detrimental that can be on the young and inexperienced. Yet, fantasy is not the problem... fantasy with no foundation in reality can cause problems but fantasies that incorporate and work to improve our realities can be an incredibly healthy and useful tool.
Other topics: Porn stars and "faking it", the trend of Ahegao and the dubious sexiness of an O-face, the vulnerability of orgasm, using fantasy to rewrite painful memories, dangerous kinks and safety, being your own best sexual partner, how fantasy helps me escape my physical health problems, your brain as your biggest sex organ, orgasms vs. meditation for relaxation.
And, of course, it wouldn't be me if I didn't end with a good cum... 😉
- COMMENTS
kparc1212over 1 year agoAll I’ve had for the last 20 years is porn and fantasy. Wife doesn’t care for sex or even physical contact, at least not from me. I find no thoughts of limits in my mind. One of my favorite jokes, when I see a beautiful young lady is: “There ought to be a law, and there is, it’s to protect young ladies like that against guys like me.” I truly do miss the musky scent of a women, the touch, feel, and taste of a woman. Thank the gods for sight and sound! Love your voice, gets me hard. Jim
Tempest_Wolfsongalmost 2 years agoAuthorJohnny,
💕 Thanks for commenting! And I agree that sensitivity and communication are absolutely essential --- in all things, honestly, but especially when dealing with things that have caused any sort of trauma. I'll never get to be a professional therapist or psychiatrist and I am always very clear to remind folks of this fact but I have been a counselor and confident my whole life; I gravitate to wanting to help, even if it is only with a smile and a warm hug. But I am no substitute for actual medical or mental care, seeing as the communication in these medium is exceedingly limited. Nevertheless, it is so good to have validation that my lay understanding of the importance and therapeutic nature of touch, fantasies and sex isn't too far off the mark. 😉 As I said, I can only speak for myself and make educated guesses about others based on my own experience ... but I know humans are more alike than we have ever truly been different. I *believe* that, even when on some days understanding our neighbors seems an impossible task.
Thanks again, truly!
T.
Anonymousalmost 2 years agoHi Tempest,
I am a PhD, and I can tell you that fantasies, touching, intercourse of all or many flavors can be very healing. The fly in the buttermilk is that a process like this must usually be done slowly and carefully, with sensitivity and fluent bidirectional communication. I'm sure you can imagine how easily this process can turn into a train-wreck if done in a mediocre manner. -- Jonnyrainbow
