by coati
A very well written and put together read. This is from 2019, but I’m of the belief that the experiences you have told on would translate very well towards a number of written fictionalized tales.
We are not meant to be alone. A relationship with a man or a woman is healthy and mutually beneficial. My wife & I can have a good time together but she is no longer interested in sex. I had been curious about sex with a guy for several years. I decided to try it and to my amazement not only do I enjoy it, I like the closeness with another guy.
There are societal barriers to men having close relationships with other men. Yea. I like sucking cocks but I like the emotional intimacy that develops with another man. I don't mean the GH hopping behavior of many guys online. I enjoy laying next to a guy and having quiet conversations or meeting in a coffee shop talking about our jobs or whatever.
Coati thanks for your insightful post.
"Lately I've met older women who have lost their long-term lovers to death or separation, and who are now practicing or at least considering a more casual but safe approach to sex with other men and women." so very true!
This is a timely, and I think pretty accurate, bit of counsel. One has to dig deeper into the study of the human psyche in order to appreciate the nuances of human diversity. We're all as unique as our fingerprints. Why would anyone think that does not touch on things like our sexuality, our internal gender identity, our tendency to be either submissive or dominant, kind or brutal — literally every aspect of our being?
Is it not the society into which one is born and indoctrinated into that tries to impose tradition and norms on us all? What if the norms don't fit? Can a person will their own fingerprints to change? No, only a wound or corrosive agent can do that. Thank you coati for this gift.
I believe this "author" to be a cutter. This is a pathetic attempt at ego boosting.
The interpersonal relations today are purely electronic.