All Comments on 'The Benefits Of D/S Relationships'

Yes Mistress.

I'll take talking out my ass about a fantasy of mine for $1000 Jim.

You do not need BDSM or a D/s relationship to achieve ANY of the perks you have listed. BDSM is an optional part of a relationship and every single couple and dynamic is different. Not all BDSM relationships use chastity play, and not all chastity play is part of a D/s relationship.

The main part of any dynamic and the first thing that is taught is consent. Consent. Informed consent, contemporaneous consent, risk-aware consent, temporary consent, indefinite consent and yes there is consensual non consent but that is to only be done between people who have a long standing trust and knowledge of others limitations as well as still including an escape clause/sage word.

As for your commandments...they sound concerning and fantastical.

Well, I can see why you are in such a small field.

I hope this isn't how you make a living.

First of all, people in a BDSM relationship have the same unwritten contract and agreement as with a domme/sub or dom/sub. There is a mutual understanding and expectation and each of them benefit from the relationship. U agree with part of what "anonymous" said below, in that there does not have to be chastity or a cage involved, nor is "HE" always the dominant partner with BDSM.

The topic is interesting, but your view seems slightly slanted perhaps to your own liking?