The Female Nature: An Essay

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The Female Nature: An Essay by Coyote Howard

It used to be so simple. Men and women. That was it. I'm struck by how complicated things are now. So much talk of genders. Of more than two.

Nature though, nature keeps it simple. Nature and evolution have come up with a system that the penis gets erect, penetrates the vagina, and ejaculates. The vagina and uterus take this seminal fluid and grow a new being. This continues the species.

I'm amazed at the evolution from its most basic principle to how we as humans are now.

At what people RISK in order to achieve orgasm. Their marriage. Their children. Their careers. Their FREEDOM. All in the pursuit of... releasing that ejaculate or reaching climax.

What I've begun to realize lately though, and the subject of this essay, is the female nature. Especially in today's age of radical feminism and equity over equality, I find it especially interesting.

A woman will present a false front. She'll present a strong and independent personality that is to say, "Don't fuck with me. Don't underestimate me. I'm in charge."

Women in politics. In police. In business. They say they want power. They want equality. They want choice.

But do they really? And how do we get to that core nature?

Sex is by far the easiest way.

Sex is our most primal of things. Humans have no instincts anymore. Unlike a newborn giraffe which can run within an hour of being born, everything we do is taught...

Yet have you ever seen a woman get pushed onto a bed? Have someone climb on top of her? How about how natural it is for a woman on her hands and knees to naturally arch their back?

Her legs spread. Her hips rise to allow access. Her hips turn so as to present her vagina for penetration. These things are the closest things to instinct we have, and a woman's is to submit.

Be honest ladies, while it feels good to climax with your hand, or a toy, or even while riding a phallus, your most powerful orgasm has come from someone else bringing you to it.

Story time:

A woman is married to a man. She has a bluetooth vibrator they picked out together. One day, she texts him that she's put it in. They connect on the app and he puts on a mode that is a low boil. 1-3 out of 10, with lengths of nothing along the way.

They then get dressed and go on about their day. Shopping. Riding in the car. Grocery getting. Yard work and gardening if they're so lucky. And all along the way, the toy is pushing her inner nature to come out.

Her husband notices not only does she become openly more touchy and feely, but she looks at him differently, she talks to him differently. And after several hours, she's become the ideal example of femininity. She doesn't want to cum, she doesn't even want to have sex... she wants her man to take her. To tell her what to do. She wants to, and needs to, allow him to be the man and let her give in.

That most powerful of orgasms? You know, the one where someone else is doing it for you?

That's because the female body has evolved over time in a very specific manner. A woman is noticed by a man. Her body, from her breasts which attract a man then feed the progeny she carried for him, to her wide hips with which to endure the passage of that progeny, to the instant heat in her loins, getting her ready, without even trying, for him to penetrate her, does everything it can to entice that man to release his semen inside her.

Then just knowing he is hard enhances her arousal. When he touches her at all, another flush. And especially when and during sex, her body does everything it can to make HIM climax.

Even the moaning and screaming is biologically tied to making the man release, and even to attract other men with which to breed.

But she lays there and needs her partner, or partners, to bring her to climax. She grips and moans and gyrates, but she allows them to bring her to the mountain top.

And there it is. That's what I'm talking about when I say the true female nature. Submissiveness. Agreeable. Docile. Reverent to their man. Subservient even.

And I know that in today's pressure for equity and feminism, it can be hard for a woman to allow herself to embrace this nature, but there's nothing wrong with it.

Especially if she has a man with that masculine nature she needs. Embracing one's true nature will enhance not only your sex life, but your normal, everyday doings as well.

Have you ever noticed when a woman is pregnant? How her attitude seemingly her changes? Sure she goes through hormonal hell, but as she goes along, and as she progresses through, she softens. She nests. Ever wonder why?

Because other than when her pussy is completely on fire from the bluetooth vibrator, this is one of her most natural states and it's essentially forced upon her.

Now let me clarify as well, that I've said women and men. But really, while biology is a huge part of this, feminine and masculine personalities come into play here as well, greatly.

I've personally seen two soulmates find each other, and the woman was the masculine one, and the man the feminine. Not saying they were trans. They enjoyed sex. She had two children by him.

I posit this challenge to all the feminine people out there: go buy a bluetooth toy. Lovense, we-vibe, you can pick. Then let your masculine partner control it.

Notice how your demeanor changes. Notice how you become more submissive the more aroused you become. And the key to your nature: the more you submit, the more aroused you become.

Notice that your partner in turn reverts to their natures as well. They begin to take charge. To begin to assert themselves over you, another innate turn on for you.

But also notice their true nature come out. They're not abusive. They're not cruel or mean. The true female nature will make the true masculine nature come out, where the goal is to take care of and provide.

And when these two natures coalesce?

Well, try it and find out.

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AnonymousAnonymous11 months ago

@ Anonymous,

Perhaps you will never read this but on the off chance that you do here goes. Why don't you just ask the guy to order for the both of you. Unless he's totally clueless he'll get the hint of what you're looking for. Most guys actually do understand that women control the pace and terms of the game and are ok with that. It's expected, and assuming he wants to play to win, he'll step up and do what's necessary. If he's clueless what the hell do you want with him anyways?

You see, men pretending to not know what's expected is part of the game too. A guy pretends to be oblivious to try and find out what the woman wants. If you don't help him out with any clues you not playing your side of the table correctly. Of course if you're not giving any indications at all, and he is too inexperienced, timid or dull to going fishing, things are likely to turn out unsatisfactorily for both parties and he can blame himself for it.

The game of seduction has been going on since the prehistoric past and both men and women quickly get a pretty good idea of how it's played. The great thing about playing the game is that it leads to great times with people you are simpatico with, and it lets you determine, without making a big investment, who you don't want to bother with any further. There's nothing to get angry about when things don't go the way you expect. It's just life, and having found out that there's nothing there, you can move along and be glad you didn't linger.

If it's worship you want let him know. I'm sure you have plenty of finesse and know how to let a guy know what you want and make it seem like, when he thinks about it, that it was his savvy that had him figure it out. If it works out it's a win for both of you. He sees himself as the masterful lover and you get worshiped! Talk about happy endings!

Best of luck in finding the guy you're looking for and the guy who's been looking for you. With very best of luck they might even be the same guy!

AnonymousAnonymous12 months ago

at first i was like i should find something to be angry about, but then i was like literally grow up (to myself). this is actually so good like i want to be in charge a lot of the time but also some of the time i secretly want the guy to just be in charge. But not really in a way for him, in a way that centers around him worshipping me. Yah. I love when a guy orders for me at a restaurant but also if theyre going to be shy or take too long im gonna just do it because im impatient. (but just know im not happy about it!) I HATE paying for guys because it makes me feel like he doesn;t want to worship and like be in charge with me. Thats how I C it

patilliepatillie12 months ago

Great analysis because I agree with it 100%.

CoyoteHowardCoyoteHowardabout 1 year agoAuthor

Spartan, thanks for the feedback! I honestly have seen "domme" before but before this never really understood the masculine and feminine differences in the phrases.

Are you on the Dom/me side or sub side? Or switch(another term I never knew before now)?

SPARTAN047SPARTAN047about 1 year ago

GREAT essay, 100% accurate. Thanks.

Whether it's women or men, the best thing to do it let biology win. Let everyone express their masculine and feminine urges. It can be a Domme woman wanting to take a cute little sissy or CD with her fat 20" strap-on. It doesn't matter. Let everyone follow their nature as long as it doesn't cross the line either way.

That means Dom/me men or women should chase who they like without harassing them, and everyone else should shut up and not assume it's assault. Some people chase and some like to be pursued. It's normal. Stop assuming all touching without verbal consent is evil and manly.

Sub men or women should follow leads, do what their Dom/me wants within some limits, and also let go and enjoy what they're told to do. Even if it's sucking their toes or cooking for them, being on a leash and collar facing their legs — let go of your ego and don't create too many barriers which frustrate your Dom/me and cause them to leave. Make them smile and feel good for being in charge. It's not easy.

Switches? You've got the best of both worlds. Balance BOTH your desires, preferably with other switches, or whoever you fall in love with.

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