by swimmerpilot
If you and the woman are not happy in your marriage, then why the hell are you still married? Leave your wife and get her to leave her family and you can both live happily ever after. Fucking behind your partners back is no way to live. And you should look at your marriage and ask yourself WHY you are still married. You obviously have no love or respect for your wife so move on, let your wife move on and maybe you can find true happiness without the burden of being married to someone you don't love.
It is hard not to develop a lot of very deep feelings for each other in this situation. You will have to update wha happenswhen you split, if you split.
You can tell your mind not to develop feelings, but you can't tell your heart.