All Comments on 'The Question of the Sensual Male'

Thoughtful piece

Thanks. Sometimes I think about sex as a dance, which can be simple or complex. My own favorite times are when the 'lead' changes, not always one person doing the leading, either in the same dance, or from one time to another. I think this is where some of the difficulties arise, many males think they always 'ought' to lead, and cannot handle things any other way. But of course there are lots of ways to dance, best when everyone is happy with the scene, or at least free to try some variation. Nicely framed essay.

Through charm and self confidence— harder to write about but maybe more expressive of that sensuality.

Thanks for the feedback Yowser! Yes, that's exactly what I was trying to get at - give and take, upsetting traditional roles or expectations all without relying on stereotypes and caricatures. Thanks again!