Eight Days in a Binding Contract

The Dominant and the Submissive recognize that this platonic relationship is unique to them. It is further recognized that the sexual activities and fantasies that may occur during the term of this agreement shall be free from romantic entanglements.

Communication/confidentiality: The Dominant, the Submissive, nor any other parties shall post the names of any participants, nor post any written descriptions or images/videos on any social media platforms of the activities that occurred during the term event without the express combined permission of the Dominant and the Submissive. They will not share details with any other outside parties any activities that occurred that would identify the Submissive. If the Dominant includes others in the sessions, these individuals are also bound to confidentiality of their activities with the Submissive.

Hosting: When the Dominant entertains invited guests in his home, it is proper and right to share his good fortune and pleasures of owning a bound Submissive with them. Likewise, it would be proper and customary to serve his guests beverages, food, etc. during their visit. The Submissive shall cover the costs of the Dominant being a good host and other like expenses.

Appendix 2

BDSM Activities

Activities acceptable and/or desired by the Submissive during the term, aka SOFT LIMITS, listed alphabetically.

The Submissive shall be naked and bound for activities whenever possible. While all listed activities are welcome and wanted and can be selected, those followed by an asterisk indicate this is an activity/position more coveted by the Submissive. Of course, whichever activities/binding positions are selected by the Dominant are of his choice and intended for his pleasure and amusement and that of his guests. All listed bound positions can be combined with sexual or torture/discipline activities or the Submissive can be left bound with no active attention so he may suffer in bondage solitude while contemplating his current servitude and life. Such idle bondage periods allow the Dominant time to amuse and excite himself or tend to personal needs/work/hobbies as Dominant cannot and should not be expected to give 100% of his attention to the lowly Submissive.

[Code: '*' coveted by sub]

Anal intercourse

Anal or oral assault by mechanical pegging machine

Anal play *

Anal vibration *

Ball binding *

Ball stretching *

Ball torture - mild

Bathroom privileges denial or delay

Bathroom attendant

Blindfolds *

Bound to bed, spread eagle *

Bound to bed, bent over with chest on mattress, feet on floor spread wide

Bound with shrink-wrap *

Bound to pegging/whipping bench *

Bound by one hole prison pole with arms tied behind back

Bound outside, on back, spread eagle *

Bound outside, upright w/hands stretched above, on toes w/feet spread wide

Bound upright with noose/collar with tension rope above, hands tied behind back, feet to spreader bar (NO HANGING)

Bound to bed or table with feet pulled back to expose butt

Bound to furniture

Bound to sling

Bound to St, Andrews Cross *

Bound to Sybian

Bound crucifixion style

Bound with leather wrist/ankle cuffs for overnight sleeping (various arrangements) *

Bound with leather wrist/ankle cuffs, tethered, awaiting Dominant's availability *

Bound wrist to ankles

Bound with spreader bar(s) *

Bound hands in front

Bound hands in back

Bound hands to sides (leather belt/cuffs) transportation/sleeping

Bound ankles/knees

Bound Hog-tied

Bound to pole

Bound to rack

Bound to toilet

Bound using leather straps *, rope, shrink wrap *, tape, pull ties, cloth, irons

Butt play

Caged

Chasity device *

Chemical heat/irritation

Clothespins - nipple play, ballbag play

Cock mechanical milking machine

Collars - Wide bondage, high posture, dog

Collar worn in public

Corsets

Cuffs - leather *

Cuffs - metal

Dildos - anal/ oral *

Ear plugs/ear buds/sound deprivation *

Electricity - Internal (bullet or probe) *

Electricity - Eros Tek/TENS unit *

Electricity - Violet Wand

Enemas - for cleansing

Enemas - retention/training

Fantasy gang rape

Fantasy rape play

Fellatio

Following orders

Forced anal penetration follow by oral insertion (uncleaned rotation)

Forced homosexuality (sexually)

Forced masturbation *

Forced nudity *

Forced cold showers while bound

Forced servitude *

Hairbrush Spankings

Handcuffs

Harnessing - leather

Harnessing - rope

Humbler

Hoods (full head) *

Hung 'out to dry' (like laundry) after shower or hose spray

Gags - bit

Gags - cloth or sponge

Gags - inflatable

Gags - phallic *

Gags - ring *

Gags - rubber ball *

Gags - tape

Genital sex (a la vache/doggie style)

Glory hole servitude (with protected sex)

Golden showers (urinate on) [must following limits listed in Appendix 1]

Ice play/Ice cubes (body, nipples, inserted) *

Leather restraints *

Manacles & Irons

Massage - giving (hands tied, but functionable)

Massage - receiving *

Masturbation - mechanical * or hand *

Milking (continued masturbation/vibration after ejaculation while tightly bound) *

Mummification - shrink wrap *

Mummification - tape

Nipple clamps *

Nipple Play - Pulls, Tugs, Twists

Nipple suction cups

Nipple weights

Orgasm control

Orgasm denial *

Outdoor scenes *

Paddling

Pain - mild *

Pain - moderate

Pegging

Penis bondage

Penis electro play

Penis whipping

Penis torture - mild

Photography of Sub (see rules, cannot be shared, Sub cannot be identifiable)

Riding crops *

Riding the horse (crotch torture) *

Rope bondage *

Rubber/latex clothing (wearing)

Sensory deprivation *

Sex toy use *

Sexual deprivation

Shared while bound (Sub sexually used by Dominant and visiting friends/guests)

Shaving/cutting genital hair /Hot waxing - hair removal

Sling bondage and sex

Sound training of urethra

Spanking - hand *

Spanking - leather slappers

Spanking - wooden paddles *

Speculums

Spreader Bars *

Stocks (head & hands and/or feet)

Straight jackets

Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)

Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)

Steel anal hook (good addition to hog-tie, connect to collar)

Suspension - inverted

Suspension - horizontal

Suspension - upright (feet on ground or tip toes) *

Swallowing Subs own semen

Swallowing Subs own urine

Swallowing semen of Dominant or guests [if participants are clean health risk as defined]

Swallowing urine of Dominant or guests [if participants are clean health risk as defined]

Thumb cuffs (metal)

Vibrator - anal *

Vibrator - egg/internal *

Vibrator - genital *

Videotaped Scenes - watching (on-line porn - gay, M/F, BDSM)

Videotape Recording (see rules, cannot be shared, Sub cannot be identifiable)

Voyeurism (while bound)

Water Torture

Waterboarding

Wartenberg Pinwheel *

Whipping - cat of 9

Whipping - flogger *

Whipping - single tail

Whipping - general *

Note: The Submissive's general attitude about receiving pain is that the feeling should remain at a pain/pleasure level. (Using a scale for how much pain does the submissive wants to receive, where 1 is none and 5 is severe: 1 - 2 - 3 - 4 - 5, the sub wishes to explore the 2-3 levels, aka mild to low-moderate)

Activities NOT acceptable and/or desired by the Submissive during the term, aka HARD LIMITS, listed alphabetically.

Biting

Branding

Burning

Causing internal bleeding

Castration/sterilization

Cutting - Blood play

Drastic loss of circulation

Drugs

Fire play

Fisting - anal

Homage with tongue/licking [HIV health reasons]

Injections

Knife play (no blood)

Kissing where Dom, Sub or guest is not 100% disease free/undetectable)

Loss of Consciousness

Nipple Piercing

Pain - severe

Pearl shower (cum on face [if participants are health risk as defined])

Permanent ink markers on skin - text or art

Piercing (perm)

Piercing (temp)

Rimming - receiving [if participants are health risk as defined]

Rimming - giving [if participants are health risk as defined]

Scarification (cutting, making scars)

Scat (brown showers)

Scratching - receiving

Scratching - giving

Sexual interactions with females

Swallowing semen of Dominant or guests [if participants are health risk as defined]

Swallowing urine of Dominant or guests [if participants are health risk as defined]

Tattooing

Activities not of interest to the Submissive, listed alphabetically.

Should the Dominant or invited guests have an interest in any of the items on this list, the Submissive accepts moving them to the Soft Limits list without Submissive's agreement or complaint as he is here to serve his Dominant in all ways and keep him happy, amused, pleasured, and sexually gratified.

Ball spanking

Ball torture - moderate

Breath play while bound (with close supervision)

Cock worship

Contract slave

Cross dressing

Daily diary

Diapers (unless needed due to long term bondage)

Dunking

Erotic dancing

Examinations - medical chair style

Exhibitionism (before friends)

Exhibitionism (before strangers)

Eye contact restrictions

Face slapping

Finger Claws

Foot worship

Forced dressing

Forced feminization

Harems (serving with other subs)

Hair pulling

High heel wearing

High heel worship

Hot wax - dripping on body/genitals

Human puppy-dog play

Humiliation in private

Humiliation in public

Hypnotism

Infantilism (baby play)

Initiation rites

Gor Slave Training (positions)

Interrogations

Kidnapping

Kneeling

Kissing (when Dom, Sub & guests are 100% disease free)

Lavatory attendant (piss only)

Leather (wearing)

Lecturing for misbehaviors

Lingerie (wearing)

Manicures - receiving

Mantra and meditation

Medical scenes

Modeling for erotic photos

Name change

Real/simulated neck hanging using elevated platform

Pedicures & Foot massages (giving)

Pedicures & Foot massages (rec'vng)

Peg chair sitting (pointed pegs)

Penis torture - moderate

Personality modification

Phone sex

Pony play

Public nudity and/or visible bondage

Public servicing

Prison scenes

Prostitution, real or fantasy

Rituals

Rimming - receiving [only if participants are 0% health risk as defined]

Rimming - giving [only if participants are 0% health risk as defined]

Religious scenes

Roleplaying

Role reversal

Rope Bondage - Intricate (Japanese)

Serving as a maid or ashtray

Serving as furniture

Serving as art

Sleep deprivation

Slutty clothing

Spandex clothing

Speech Restrictions, what and when

Standing in corner (punishment)

Strapping (full body beating)

Suction Cups

Switching roles (Top/bottom)

Teasing

Tickling

Toilet dunking

Gloves

Verbal humiliation

Wearing symbolic jewelry

Weight control

Wrestling

Sir Michael spent considerable time discussing the clauses that allowed guests to engage with the Submissive. He was concerned that if he elected to bring others to play that they would be hesitant to touch someone they didn't know who was bound, sightless and/or sound deprived and could later claim rape or assault. He was proud of the verbiage that unequivocally grants the guests signed permission from the bound, sightless, and sound deprived submissive to interact sexually or abusively with the submissive. I agreed to the clauses as presented; excited, but anxious. This would be all new to me if it indeed happens. I had limited sexual experiences as a young man and had never been with anyone else since I was married.

Sir Michael also discussed pain limits, safe words, any new limits I may have, and any special requests without indicating anything he had planned for me. When he was satisfied that I understood the terms, he handed me a pen and simply said "sign".

And then the eight days of contracted servitude began in earnest.

Chapter 3 First Things First

Friday morning. "You will address me as 'Sir Michael' or 'Sir.' You will be addressed as 'Bitch' because you are my bitch and likely also 'Cunt' or 'Pussy' as both of those seem to suit you too. In public or private, I may also elect to call you Bobbie or anything that pleases me. Did you bring your computer with you?" "Yes Sir", I reply. "Good. I want you to keep a journal, a diary of sorts, to record of all that happens to you this week. You are to put in writing what you endured physically. The bounds and restraints you are put it. What your body felt. What your mind felt. The punishments and tortures administered to you. The sexual encounters you had. What you learned about you and your new life. Record your desire and need for servitude. You are to write in your journal each day before you have your breakfast covering all the activities of the day and night before. As you serve your enslavement to me continue to ponder and contemplate about it, so it sets in your mind and is easy to remember. Some of what will happen to you will make your mind a tad foggy. Focus on the details as they happen, savor and relish them, both the good and bad, and it will be easier for you to transcribe them the next day. You read BDSM/bondage and Dom/sub stories all the time. Most of them are works of fiction. You know this is real. What you'll feel will be real. The bonds and restraints will be real. The solitude will be real. The discipline will be real. The torture will be real. The pleasures will be real. The pain will be real. Sexual use and abuse will be real. Each time you read your journal all the memories of your time here will come flooding back to you and you be ten times more aroused from it than those fiction stories ever can provide. I think it will be your new favorite book. Understand, yes? Then Bitch, let's get started, head to the master bedroom and strip off all of your clothes."

"Yes Sir" and I did as I was told.

"Go into the bathroom and get on the scale." I wasn't expecting an immediate weigh in. I had weighed myself before I showered while getting ready to travel early this morning, I was178.8 pounds naked. I should be fine. I strip and Sir immediately asks, "What is that thing you have on?"

I look down at what he was pointing at. "A male chastity device. I wore it to please you" I replied. "Let me make something clear from the start. Your job is to please me, but I decide what it is that pleases me. It's a lesson I see I'll need to reenforce" Sir said.

I knew what that meant. Here I was five minutes into servitude, and I was already going to be punished.

"Now get on the scale." I do and have an 'oh crap' moment. "You agree that the scale reads 183 pounds? Did you not just sign a document that says you will arrive here weighing under 180 pounds? Do you recall what this means?" Crap. How could this be? Everybody's scale reads differently, but nearly four pounds? This cock piece and lock doesn't weigh that much. Don't complain. Don't make excuses. Sir Michael seems to be playing this role straight, don't tick him off. "I'm sorry Sir" is all I replied.

Sir Michael inspected my body paying particular attention to my butt and butt hole. He twisted the chastity device till he got a reaction from me. Then told me to redress without underwear as we were going to Home Depot. He needed some chains and hooks for the afternoon, and it was something he wanted me select and purchase, like picking your own switch for a whipping. We returned home with eight lengths of sturdy chain (four 6 foot long and four 2 foot long) and ten screw eye hooks of two different sizes, the cost went on my credit card.

Sir Micheal then indicated it was time for a house and yard tour. He set limits of where I was allowed to go within the house, basically limiting me to the master bedroom, master bathroom, kitchen, garage, i.e. the dungeon and the atrium which connects the master bedroom and garage. He then showed me some of the projects that he expected me to complete in exchange for both the room & board and the training and services he was providing me.

The bedroom had Sir Michael's queen-size bed and typical side tables, a desk holding two computers and two large screen monitors, a large breakfront glass cabinet and a massage table. It also had a nice wood fully adjustable pegging bench with padded chest, arm and leg rests, each of the rests equipped with built in restraints. There were various attachment points adorning the evil device. He took pride in introducing me to its features and potential uses. This room is where he operates his massage business, enjoys his on-line porn, chats with me on the phone, sleeps, and I assume has relations with his gay friends.

His dungeon was in his garage. It was a finished room but still retained the garage door. It was nice man-cave; well-lit but not airconditioned. There were two floor pole oscillating fans, one in each corner that could provide a nice breeze. The room had a leather sling hanging from the ceiling on chains. A stand-up pillory. A large black heavy steel dog cage. A very nice professionally made Saint Andrews Cross with built-in straps. Sir Michael made sure I saw the ratcheted straps at the top that would stretch one's wrist upward and the drop-a-way footrests which together would effectively stretch and suspend the user. The other bounding straps along the cross would make a suspension bearable. At least I hope it will. By Sir's comments, there was no doubt in my mind that I was going to make use of it during my stay. There was a large heavy wood bondage chair in a Vee-shape that would spread a user's legs apart nicely when seated and had multiple arm securing points. Scary to me was a pointed pegged seating board that could be placed on the chair seat, making for great discomfort of the upper legs and butt if used. Another device was a table like board assembly, basically an 18 wide, six-foot long tabletop made of 3/4-inch plywood, attached to 2 x 4 legs, with one end's leg set each being abound 12 inches long and the other two legs being about 30 inches long, so that an incline plane was created. The upper end of the tabletop narrowed to about just eight inches wide for the final foot of its length. This section extended past the legs. The legs were well braced. The table was very sturdy. It was unpainted. Sir indicated that this was newly created just for me. Seems like he had a plan for what he was going to do to me and was well prepared for the role he was to play. In the corner was an elliptical trainer and what appeared to be a rimming chair. There were also ample attachment points along the walls and in the ceiling. A twin-size mattress with a black fitted sheet was leaned up against one wall. There were numerous shelves with many toys. Enough dildos to open a store. There was a shelf with what appeared to be electro toys. And what scared me most was another shelf with some evil looking whips, riding crops, paddles, floggers, a nasty cat-of-9-tails and a Rattan cane. (You always forget something, I meant to add no caning to my hard list, crap. Maybe the no visible scaring rule will save me.) There was one empty shelf that I was told was there to store the toys and leather goods I had brought with me for the week. The opposite wall had shelves where he stored his tools and other typical garage stuff. Finally, hanging on the back wall there was a very large monitor/tv, I'm guessing maybe a 75 inch, connected to a computer. Sir mentioned in passing as I looked at it that he liked his porn to be life-sized.