All Comments on 'Love and Sex can Mean Adapting'

Excellent question. It wasn't so much being squeamish as not finding the smell of pubic area being enjoyable. The mouthwash on the washcloth allowed them to enjoy oral sex without it being an act to endure.

Like the concept of adapting as you grow older, and finding what works for both of you. If you are both loving and compassionate toward each other and toward yourselves, you can work it out. In this story, what was the deal with the mouthwash soaked washcloths? I didn't understand that. Were they squeamish about each other's taste ?

I can relate, but my wife of almost 40 years can’t. LOL 3.8*

perhaps we should teach the young about gentle sex... certainly pornography will never do that ,,, lovely work ... writing GOOD!!

That was wonderful. All my rheumatologist friends will love it. Thank you.

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You are my heroes!

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