All Comments on 'Memoirs of a Shared Wife Ch. 17'

Well, Pippa! These sorts of things happen to men all the time. Many men can't even urinate in front of other men, or in the toilets of a theater, if other men are waiting for one to finish, the urine stream just will not come. I believe it's actually quite common. And that's just urinating! Sexual activity has to be much more significant, and doing it with another man's wife, in front of him? That has to be the ultimate in dramatic. So, actually, it's not that surprising, especially since you have always described Alan as a sweet, sensitive man. Some men cannot even perform if they feel unfaithful to their wives. Sexual activity is quite complicated, it seems, and the brain plays a huge role. Excellent story and recounting! 5* ~~JBE

PS: Had it been fiction, we could have had, after Alan's meltdown, having John satisfying you, with Alan watching, and then after John drives you to paradise, having a newly invigorated Alan push John aside and take over the erotic chores, so to speak.

Diary of a Whore, more like. And endless, repetitive and boring.

Great stuff Pippa. Love your uncluttered storytelling ... feels warm and authentic. Turns me on big-time. Cheers to John as well ... know what you're feeling mate!

Great writing again Pippa!

Well, there has been times when you want a hard on but your dick doesn’t support. Especially when there is something troubling you emotionally. It happens sometimes. I really felt for Alan, John and you.

Waiting for the next part.

Such a raw and emotional recollection , one which I felt the pain caused to all three involved . I've sent a personal message which I hope is acceptable Pippa . Kind regards to you ...

Sweet, and kind of sad. But that's life, and such situations are more common than we men would like. It was apparently a bit too far, too fast for Alan. But he ended up with some of his needs met in a context that he could deal with. A learning experience all around. On the positive side for Pippa, she has an open spot on her dance card, so to speak. And new possibilities await.

No wonder he couldn't get hard what with that idiotic "there you go sir" talk.

Such a disappointment for all concerned but as you and others say, these things happen when under stress. Also, with Alan being a relative novice at this sex-lark, it is not full surprising.

Even so, I continue to enjoy your writings and so far have not had an “Alan moment” from reading about your delicious exploits!

I thought you wrote this chapter with great empathy for Alan, bless him.

As others have said, this sort of thing happens t some men of all ages, but especially

older guys.

I think you have to be of a certain mindset to even try this sort of thing and possibly Alan was not

there. Too sensitive a person and although you worked wonders with him, his demons got the better

of him. Don't forget that the largest sexual organ is the brain . There are guys out there who could

~ perform~ this task for you at the drop of a hat ( or trousers), walk away and come back time and

time again for ther own sexual gratification, but beware, only you and your husband know what you

want out of this. Just don't get hurt in your quest!

It would be better if peoples names had the first letter capitalised, it would save all the red lines under them.

I have to admit, the series has me hooked, the raw reality, the intimacy, it feels voyeuristic, like being there. I absolutely love the support of John, and the sharing of the experiences between you both. I also love the gradual development, and personal connections. Thank you for sharing with us all.