by JackBeHuge
Suggest you look up the definition of lied. Consistently used incorrectly.
Takes all kinds. Different strokes. Whatever floats their boats. Wake me up when their marriages are over. On second thought, I would like to snooze a little longer than that.
I’ll have to apologize for using lied instead of lay, I have to admit that it’s a pretty dumb mistake.
I have one question about the couples...They were special friends since ever and forever, so why spend money mantaining two houses?
My wife and I have been happily enjoying very similar experiences for most of our 30+ years together.
If a fear that these kinds of friendships are impossible is all that's stopping you that's really too bad. But I'm guessing it's more than that: your own insecurities, your lack of confidence in your spouse's love, a petty morality that insists upon a narrow definition of love and marriage, etc.
Fact is, there are a lot of people who make this work. Of course you are the last person they'd ever allow to know that - who has time for petty judgmentalism when there's a rich and rewarding life to live?
Just because you believe and act one way sure doesn't give you the right to call names and denigrate others for not sharing that view. I personally wouldn't live that way and wouldn't tolerate a spouse or partner that did. I don't go around name calling and trashing your world view and values. Please keep your post constructive and try not to keep showing your ass.