by JackBeHuge
Just because you believe and act one way sure doesn't give you the right to call names and denigrate others for not sharing that view. I personally wouldn't live that way and wouldn't tolerate a spouse or partner that did. I don't go around name calling and trashing your world view and values. Please keep your post constructive and try not to keep showing your ass.
My wife and I have been happily enjoying very similar experiences for most of our 30+ years together.
If a fear that these kinds of friendships are impossible is all that's stopping you that's really too bad. But I'm guessing it's more than that: your own insecurities, your lack of confidence in your spouse's love, a petty morality that insists upon a narrow definition of love and marriage, etc.
Fact is, there are a lot of people who make this work. Of course you are the last person they'd ever allow to know that - who has time for petty judgmentalism when there's a rich and rewarding life to live?
I have one question about the couples...They were special friends since ever and forever, so why spend money mantaining two houses?
I’ll have to apologize for using lied instead of lay, I have to admit that it’s a pretty dumb mistake.
Takes all kinds. Different strokes. Whatever floats their boats. Wake me up when their marriages are over. On second thought, I would like to snooze a little longer than that.
Suggest you look up the definition of lied. Consistently used incorrectly.