by Oupa99
@Anom,
You related orgasm control to breathing. Just like you can hold your breath for some amount of time, you can control orgasms (otherwise men would be going off every 2 sec.) to a certain extent. Thinking of something else or trying to force your muscles not to respond works, but as you pointed out, nothing is fool-proof. At some point, she was going to cum regardless of what her master wanted - he just let her at her limit. That's why when you read stories saying that sometimes Doms purposefully make the sub fail to punish them, that actually does happen.
I don't get these stories where the character isn't allowed to cum. I'm not a medical expert, but I believe orgasm is a physiological reaction, and as such isn't subject to control. You might as well tell someone not to breath without permission.