All Comments on 'Self-Control'

To a slave or submissive nothing compares to the hurt of having your collar taken away, I enjoyed this story a great deal

People don't have to be tolerant of just anything--

and people who want to be "abused" have a responsibility to other people,

to not want anyone you love/care about to be what you are

"take my baby to the carnival, and I'll take you on all the rides ...

don't you know when my dreams come true, when I'm walking down the street with you ..." Tom Waits, natch

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KX-IyEfLZt4

they're evil, disgusting, slimey, sexist, perverted, sick, mean, stupid* ...

so I get a sort of ecstatic feeling when I feel love for these--

weird people.

*Of course, they're not really all these things. But they're shown this way in very much of our culture.

I have as much difficulty overcoming the fear and prejudice of than--males.

That's the main reason, I guess, why I feel a certain joy when this happens.

Like--this couldn't happen. But it does.

I believe males are "hard-wired" to love "dominant" women. It starts when they are in their mother's womb.

Then, usually, their mother teaches them.

I mean "dominant" in a domestic way; not as a fetish.

Men can't help it.

They act "dominant" because they think girls/women want this.

But the males really want to be--lovingly--dominated by a woman.

This is true in all the world cultures I admire. Matriarchy (sp?) rules. Especially in the world cultures I love most.