All Comments on 'Sexual Preference/Choice Ch. 01'

You are like a born again christian or a reformed ex-smoker. "HEY I'm polyswingerwife here to convince you all how wonderful my life is, what you are missing out on and why you should be trying it" Evangelists of any form get irritating real quick.

I think you missed the point of this essay. It's not about me or my life. It's about trying to find out if heterosexuality is a choice or not. We accept heterosexuality as normal, but why? And is it a choice like any other type of sexuality? That's what this essay and the following chapters try to find out.

So many people accept sexuality as unchangeable, but what if we can choose our sexuality? And if we can, why do we choose what we choose?

The question that runs through this and the following chapters is; What is heterosexuality? How is it defined? And what is a strictly heterosexual act?

Again, this essay is not about me, or me trying to convince anyone of anything. This essay and the following chapters are meant to bring about thoughts on and about a subject that few ever question.

I consider your essay brilliant and controversial (which I love). Even so I disagree with some of your points.

In my opinion there’s a biological and a social component in the reality of: “People are not as comfortable with those who are different from them”

While men/women change the tone (and subject) of the conversation when someone of the other sex is present, that not happens if this new person is part of the group and accepts the other’s manners.

But this may have to do with the fact of being part of the group or a stranger (as happen between locals and a visitor)

But also people (even young children) feel uncomfortable with the unknown like a stranger (this applies in general to animals)…