by EmilyMiller
Love this. I practise with girls, I'm more often than not blindfolded. It heightens the senses. I love the eroticism, the unknowing, feeling defenceless, unable to react. I jolt and writhe in pain.
With a stranger it's scarier. You always doubt that they'll listen to the safe word. I don't enjoy breast play, nipple clamps the closest I get.
But being tied over a box and being flogged raw is so hot. Penetrative sex is not always needed, but if it's rough and unapologetic, demeaning and painful. Km a happy girl.
The sensual strokes and after care brings me back down to earth.
Thank you for writing this.
J x
You gave me a sense of what that feels like.
I'm not into pain, but the unknown is a thrill.
You have already led one hell of an interesting life. Thanks for the lesson and explanation, but even with it, it's beyond the scope of my imagination. The comment of Yesok1 lets me realize that this is really a thing. Good for both of you, and good luck, 5*~~JB
@Yesok1 - you are braver than me with strangers. I have a friend who meets people on-line and then IRL for BDSM. I couldn’t do that. Too scared. Emily
@JBEdwards - I’m making up for it now by being very vanilla and 100% monogamous 😊 Em
It has never been my thing, but I can understand it a little better now.
Huge trust in your partners
@Frabkfiredawg06 - for sure, which is why doing it with strangers was never my thing 😊 Emily
Fascinating insights into something I frankly have zero experience with. I've always had a tough time wrapping my head around the "pain = pleasure" concept. I appreciate you explaining it in a way that's understandable. If not something I can actually relate to.
In my opinion, the "restorative cuddles" is the very best part of any BDSM experience. Thank you for sharing your experiences, Emily. Interesting to look at it from "the other side", if you will, as I am a giver and not a receiver.
As you know, there are so many more ripened berries to harvest from that 👆🏼 little bush. 😏 Always love the peek inside your mind that your personal and intimate writing offers. 👏🏼
@Djmac1031 - it needs a longer essay really. Just a glimpse with only 750 words. Emily
@Devinter - don’t recall you mentioning that. Glad it made sense to you 😊 Emily
To be so young, you have experienced so much. Thank you for sharing and giving us a glimpse into the world of Emily Miller. Love ❤️ your work. 🙂
Thanks for explaining this Emily, it's sounds like you've had a lot of awesome fun! I would be interested in an essay on why you no longer engage in S&M.
As a non practitioner this was extremely enlightening. I truthfully never “got it” intellectually or emotionally. This helped bridge my awareness gap. Well done.